The Magic of Thirties

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I have entered in my 30's and if you ask me how does it feel ? I would say Magical. Everything about getting older is magical , I have noticed so many changes in my body and mind in the past few years  that tells me to invest more in myself than anything else. I prefer to talk less and observe more, I choose to stay home and spend time with myself and do the things I love to do or sometime I am not even doing anything. After entering in my 30's I have come to realize that those who care for you will stay no matter what and those who are meant to leave will leave anyway how hard you try  to hold them. Living alone feels like a luxury now. There are some other things that I would like to share here. I am sure many of you will relate to it.

You Don't Give A Damn About What People Think 

The older I am getting the more concern I am about what I feel not what people think or say. Although, I have been always open and loud about the things I like or don't like but with every passing year I feel I have become a person who stopped seeking for other's approval. 

More To Do,  See & Explore 

I really don't know why but suddenly I have started feeling that I don't have enough time. The more I see I feel like seeing more and the more I learn I want to go extra mile or beyond . Time is flying so fast and I feel like catching up with it.  I want to read more , write more , learn more and explore more.

Filtering The  Noise 

I feel with every passing  year I am becoming more of a home bird, by which  I don't mean to say that  I don't want to go out and meet people. I just mean to say that I just have learned to cut down the extra noise around me . I am only in touch with people or talk to people who matters to me the most and who have been with me  through my worst and best over the years. 


Questioning the Norms 

I have been this person who always question things,norms and whatever I clearly don't understand. But now I ask more questions  about so many norms that has been created  by the society eons ago . A lot of it has to do with the choices I have made in life and also being financially independent. But questioning the norms and doing the things  my way or making my own norms  and rules have become my favorite thing to do.  I don't really care if people don't like me for asking questions or not doing it the way they want me to do.  

It is All About You 

Entering into 30s feels like owning everything , it is all about you . I feel that one should do what he/she feels right not how people expect him/her to. I have verythinglearned this that everything  is about you , how you feel it , how you want it or don't want it. We are grown up in a world where girls are being taught from their childhood to do things in a certain way or behave certain way. But it takes some good years of experience to realize that it is your life and nobody has the right to dictate you what you should do or what is good for you. Only you get to decide that for yourself because it is all about you. This took me some time to own everything that is mine but now that I have owned it be it my flows , bad decisions or the achievements. 

Don't Be A People Pleaser  

30s has  taught me so many things I have mentioned about and if you ask me what is the one thing that stands out.  I will tell this to every girl or woman out there that don't be a people pleaser. It will take away a lot of the things from you and you will not even realize it . No matter how hard you try there will be people who will say things you never expect them to say to you. The more we focus on ourselves we become the better version each day and that is what sometime people don't want you to become. It is always better to stay focus and not get into people pleasing. 

Invest in Your Relationships  

The older I am getting  I feel like staying close to my family and meet them often. I know that only  memories will stay with us , how we make our loved ones feel will stay forever. I don't have many friends and I am very close to my family I can't imagine my life without all of them. Each of them has taught me to do better ,be better and stay grounded. Make sure when you have nothing or when you have everything always cherish your relationships , invest everything that you can because it is like nourishing your soul.

Love & Gratitude 

I have been lucky to have  met so many  people over the  years at  different age and stages in my life. All of them has taught me  so many things . And I feel nothing but grateful.

I Don't Believe in Comparison  

Also, I don't understand the language of comparison,  because I practically know that everyone's normal or good is being defined differently and we all have different priorities in life and we all make choices on the basis of our experiences and exposure. I would rather enjoy my journey to the fullest and have a life filled with love and joy. I am here to enjoy this journey call life and make the best out of it.

What are your life lessons ? What life has taught you do let me know in the comment section below.

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